Female Superiority and Spankings

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Hello again world, I am emerging back to the land of the living just to disappear but this time not so unexpectedly. I am moving as of Monday to Georgia to become a peach for late winter, spring and summer. Then back to Texas for Fall and Winter, kinda like a really pretty elusive bird, heads south for winter, only is kinda odd as she goes back north a bit for the harsher part of winter? Truth be told I just want to stake out my part of the Spring break white beaches before the other college hotties get up here.

Updates: as of early next week I will have ring tones ready for purchase, 20 second sound bytes for your phone, also getting more video and picture sets and galleries up and added to both niteflirt and my fetish members area. Along with all theses I am creating a 2009 calendar for you boys, complete with notes and special Amberly Hoildays, yearly, monthly, weekly and daily. Lots more ways to have me assimulate into your life!

One last update: I did give myself a raise, to 2.99 a minute. I was having back to back calls and while that is nothing to complain about when phone sex and niteflirt is part of what you use to pay tuition, I was getting alot of really good regular callers angry as they could never catch me before some one else snags you. In keeping with the basic principals of supply and demand, I upped my rates a bit *ok alot* so that everyone has their fair chance. Remember, heres the upsale, I have a special line availible to only those in my members area that is is my old 1.99 a minute rate for those in my members area. $60 bucks now and poof you get me for that sweet rate *winks* not to mention the pictures videos and tasks and such.

Ok so about the podcast and my views. Now if I went on about my views in a podcast we might be here for a few years listening to my rant and rave and give elusive examples but I won’t be doing that today. Instead I am writing yet another novel for the search engines and phone sex callers and blog reading lovers and Amberly enthuists to read.

Why are men inferior in my opinion? Simple, in the stereotypical world that we live in, try as we may to deny it or try to step out of it, men are the bread winners and leader of the house. He leaves early in the morning to toil away to create a nice living condition for the wife at home who sits watching soap operas and gets her nails and hair done and basically living off the working man’s dime. If this doesn’t sound like the slave days of yore where the Queen would have minions doing all the work and creating profits for her glory then I honestly don’t know what does.

Society has placed women on silver pedestals for centuries and cross cultures, so why would something that is almost revered as a God be inferior to the ones worshiping it? If your argument is that women have had no influence over the major events of the world, they how come wars have been fought for territory and women and love? Then how come such names as Pandora, Cleopatra, Queen Elizabeth, Lady Godiva and countless others come to mind be they mythical or coporeal? Women have always run the world secretly through the powers of seduction and the rouse of being helpless and defenseless and sometimes a pinch of naivity to seal the deal. Even the stereotypical blonde bimbo is no fool, or the gold diggers of the world. Its a craft that is honed just like any other job that men have ever held. To be charming and always able to handle what comes at you is not easy and these women should win Grammies for making it seem so.

The concept, for those who still doubt my creeds and idealogy, is as primal as it is animalistic. Men as slaves is no clearer shown as it is in the animal kingdom. For this example lions will be used. The male lion gets to ensure his genes are passed along so long as he can have a harem of lionesses; however, he is at constant threat of being dethrowned from his place in the world by other lions at every moment. For him to hold his place of grace amongst the women he loves he must fight and sometimes die. The lioness though doesn’t care one way or another who the male is, be he the new comer or the old man. In her life more priorities are present. This fact is held true in their human counterparts. For the most part, girls can always find another man. It’s not hard, even though its a fact their are more women than men on this Earth. The deck is simply just stacked against those with the penis, even when statistically they should be winning and the shoe on the other foot.

Ok on a completely unrelated note, I want to address the fact that I enjoy giving spankings to be it man or woman and why I wouldn’t have a spanking listing up on Niteflirt. Put the buring torches down and the noose on a limp for a moment my die hard bdsm lovers. It takes Niteflirt a few days to approve a listing and I get so busy that I sometimes forget, HEY I DO THAT CATAGORY AS WELL, and I figured since I have a bdsm listing I would naturally get those calls, but Steve, my of my new favorites worth mentioning, gave me a chance and called anyway and we talked about his favorite bdsm kink/ topic….. drum rolls….. SPANKINGS as opposed to spankings.

We had a great time discussing the types of instruments used for punishment such as switches, canes, floggers, cat of nine tails * a personal favorite though I tend to break mine after a few months use*, whips, paddles and even a nice flat hair brush *though I find using brissles can be a blast as well for those who like a little more pain*. Yes that is a short list, I am trying to keep my novel short and curt damn it. He gave me some excellant tips on mixing a little bit of water with baby oil to keep the skin from damaging during the beatings as well as soaking your wooden abusers in water * or was it water and oil, makes note to ask again* so that it adds a bit of sting as well as helps the skin.

In our conversation as well we talked about how many dominants like to use hands and make the spankings boring, this saddens me. For those reading here are some fun ways to liven up a spanking session.

1. Add an element of surprise and humilation *knotice I didn’t say verbal*. Make him dress up all sissy style or make her scream stuff while being beaten like ” I like wear my panties on my head” and other ridiculous phrases.

2. Make up a reason for the punishment. They came over to late, there is a stain on her clothes, he didn’t address you right, she knocked on the door to loud. Makes the fantasy become more in depth.

3. While I love spanking people over my knee, that shouldn’t be the only position that is utilized. Place them up against the wall with hands over their head, spanking them on the floor, while they stand, have them lay over the back of the couch with their hands and head and upper torso on the bottom cushion…. once again a short list but be creative and move it around. * in the shower is fun too *winks**

4. The sound of the wack against the body is often more exciting than the actual spanking, so whatever you do use something that makes a loud bang!

5. Make it fun most of all! Don’t try to stick to any stereotypes or script, make it spontaneous and different each time. Monoity is the death of all sexual exploration and kink!

6. For you slaves, squirm and wiggle and resist. Makes the spankings fun for us and engages the domme. If I wantted to beat a lifeless sack of bones, I would go find some road kill. No I want to punish you, so give me a reason to continue damn it!

And just for steve here is my spanking listing. Its still unapproved but anyone can call lol.