Mistress Humiliation

So on to the fun stuff first right pets? I know you Niteflirt addicts have such short attention spams its. So my submissives first is the latest video for me to release and the small 4 second preview I put up to the side, like it pets? Oh this one has sound as well. Isn’t Dani totally hot? Hell yeah she is. We did a short teasing video and no your DENIED your orgasm even when watching it pets hehe! This is going to be a blue ball weekend isn’t it? Try not to get too much drool on your computer as it might cause damage and or totally wreck it! I have to say this is one of my more tame videos but the tease is to die for… and who knows as old as you guys are it JUST might do that. Pace maker wearers you definitely want to buy this I mean what better way to go out  right?

Oh and now for my new hot assignment! This is a public humiliation assignment designed to specifically get you totally wrecked by the females! You Niteflirt freaks will go crazy as your Mistress Amberly forces you to publicly show your shame to hot chicks of your area and also trick you into blackmail! Oh yes!!! You will not see this coming and well you will HAVE to send me the pictures I ask for through this assignment. I mean if you don’t the person I will get contact with, from you just DOING THIS ASSIGNMENT AND SENDING ME NO INFO, will then just give it to me anyways!!! We will BOTH then totally take you over then!!!! HAHAHA!! pets this is my most manically assignment ever and it will bring you to your knees and make you BEG to get out of this blackmail contract. Unlike my other blackmail contracts though… this one is FOREVER!!! I will NEVER RELEASE you without exposing you.

SOOO last weeks question was a hit apparently as you guys jumped over each other just to ask questions and discuss blackmail and its ramifications and get definitions on my style of blackmail. Glad to see many of you caught on so quickly on why my blackmail is so effective and potent. So I thought I would continue you this this week however there is a hiccup….

I did a bunch of mp3s last night but I lost them all when my laptop crashed because I didn’t pay attention to the battery power, and I tend to ignore the pop up warnings and not really read them … oppies… SOOO I did this new assignment which I was going to release with an mp3 but oh well and a new video instead.

My new question will be posted HERE so be sure to book mark THIS specific page and not the moneyovermen.com home page . If you are reading this on my homepage click on the top link saying Mistress Humiliation in order to bookmark the right page. This way you can check back in on the right page as I am going to make an mp3 post tomorrow, if everything goes well.

WITHOUT further dalliance, this week’s submissive feedback question is: Is a Mistress’s beauty in the brain or body?

My views on this loaded question:

I’ve seen some drop dead gorgeous girls who claimed to be “Mistresses” and upon reading their blogs or tweets… I would know instantly they were NOT! They were nothing more than a hot body who got turned onto something that could be lucrative. Now because that some like that and they are doing no real harm to me, you will NEVER see me call anyone out. I mean why send someone free traffic and give them free recognition right? That and my blog is selfishly all about me hehe.

On the flip side, I have seen some people I personally find unattractive who are fucking amazing Dominas. They are engaging to read and for those who I have had the chance to hear their voice really know how to articulate and saying stuff other than LOSER repetitively. Oh wait isn’t that what seems to now dub you as a Mistress when you parrot back the same 5 insults over and over? Please note the sarcasm there.

Perhaps it is because I am woman and we are more cerebral stimulated than men but being a top is in the mind first for me. To say that looks do not matter would be to lie, but it is also relative. Some of you guys love the big fat flabby girls who could roll over and squish you and that’s fine…. not my cup of tea but fine. Others of you want girls so freaking skinny you can count their ribs and vertebrae… again nothing I would wish to gawk out and rub one out too but to each their own.

For those of you who are TRUE submissives, and not just guys jerking off to the idea of being dominated, how do you feel when someone seems totally out of their element and simply trying on shoes when they claim this is who they have been since they could remember??? Do you feel you need to then guide them * to that I ask then who is the REAL DOM/DOMME?* or is it your just to sweet to disengage the communication?

This was started by someone , can’t remember who right now, who talked about how they had to guide someone they called on Niteflirt in how to blackmail them.

Goddess Amberly: Notorious REAL Blackmail Fetish Mistress


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  • ttmagoo September 24, 2010, 11:04 pm

    the obvious answer is both, but in my humble opinion physical beauty is one dimensional, whereas the beauty of the mind is power. it is the manipulative ability of the mind of a truly dominant woman to take advantage of her beauty. but obviously it doesnt stop there with her mind. it is the mind which seduces, which spins the web, which gently leads you down that path. physical beauty will only take you so far. it may open the door. but it is the mind that will captivate the room. so if i must choose i would say that a mistresses beauty is her mind. thats all i have for now but i shall contemplate this further and if i find something more to add, i shall

  • ttmagoo September 24, 2010, 11:30 pm

    i should also mention that i purchased the video offered in this post and it is a great example of your ability to know just what buttons to push to make us/me weak. beauty yes. but knowing how to use this beauty to your advantage is yet another example of brains over beauty.

  • heelboy September 25, 2010, 12:46 am

    Defiantly the brain. I have found myself falling for bbw dommes (that previously did not intrest me before) because of the way they present themselves, and the clever words and cruelness they use. Its like an invisable energy of superiority. I’m not usually into overweight people, im quite young at 24. Guess being virgin and never having girls even glance my way for all of my life causes strange desires.

  • Alex September 25, 2010, 9:04 am

    While mistress’s beauty may be the initial attraction, it is her brains that captivates and holds on to ensure a loser’s loyalty to the point of her glory and the loser’s suffering. All her photos, mp3’s and assignments are well designed to capture even a non-loser who happens by, and then justly send him along her chosen path toward his being blackmailed and possibly ruined, all for his suffering and her glory!

  • belwood1 September 26, 2010, 6:29 am

    Thank you Miss Amberly for this engaging post! Your journal and your pay-mails are very stimulating to read!

    I have never thought about the topic of your question until you asked. I feel vain saying this, but I have always gravitated toward the young hotties, whether the blackmail lasted one chat session or several months. The thought of being owned by a woman who I am not attracted to is painful to me.

    On the other hand, I have read and masturbated to many blackmail articles contained within the journals of women who I do not find attractive. And on occasion, I have incorporated their lack of good looks into the suffering aspect of my stroke fantasy. However, I inevitably cringe and denounce whatever words of self-depreciation that I grunted during my climax.

    So to answer your original question, I find beauty in both the body and the brain. But the bodies have been the recipients of my funds thus far. And it goes without saying that you are the embodiment of both brains *and* breathtaking beauty. Therefore, your subs enjoy the best of both worlds.

  • Mistress September 26, 2010, 8:20 am

    VERY interesting replies and I like how everyone avoided one of my questions. I know that since this is a sexual relationship we are talking about, the person your talking to has to be attractive to you… but your all seeming to wish to answer but avoid the true topic….

    I asked about the ones you find extremely attractive however are not truly Dommes but rather parrot the same 5 phrases they see others doing and just trying to make a quick buck OR do you only go for those who are truly Dommes and this is who they truly are regardless of looks.

    This will tell me who out there is truly a submissive and who is just merely a fetish head that jerks to this on the weekends hehe.

  • ttmagoo September 26, 2010, 9:13 am

    i’ll try my best to address this question, although i’m initially attracted to incredibly attractive dommes, if i see one listing on their pages that says they are submissive or a switch then i am immediately turned off and avoid them completely. i realize that as a sub, i’m a bit of a hypocrite in that when i’m not exposed to this lifestyle or stimuli, i am a million miles away and can live a very satisfying life detached from this. but the beauty of a truly creative, cruel domme such as yourself is in the fact that you always keep it interesting and keep me coming back. the true beauty of this experience is in the power you hold and how you express it. so yes regardless of looks i would appreciate you, but at the same time i would be a hypocrite if i didnt mention how turned on i get by the images you display to make us weak, unimaginative dommes turn me off. extremely intelligent, manipulative women in scene and in real life make me hard and weak

  • James September 26, 2010, 9:30 am

    Another Great discussion point from Mistress Amberly, Not that we would expect less. For me the simple answer is that beauty and power are completely in the brain. For me anyway, there is nothing worse than listening to a Domme who is clearly just a college hottie, and has no ability to mentally dominate a man.
    You have it all down completely (and im not just saying that, im a very blunt and honest person). You have beauty, which does help a lot, but you also have an incredible brain, and an incredible grasp of D/s. You have the ability to get inside a subs head, rather than just his dick. Which for me anyway, is far, far more potent.

    To be completely honest with you, although I class myself as a sub, I am not instantly submissive to anyone. When I see Dommes on twitter, tweeting the same phrases “oh you cant cum with out me” and “sell your house for me”, I just think “whatever”. That doesnt make me want to submit, no matter how hot they were.

    Sorry if I have gone of point, but too me submission is a gift, and I would only give it to a Domme who had the brain to Dominate.

  • bogs35 September 26, 2010, 11:33 pm

    For me, it’s the physical beauty that ensnares me initially. From that point on, it’s the brain and attitude that intoxicate me and make me weak.

  • belwood1 September 27, 2010, 4:28 am

    Oh no, I cannot hang with ditsy wannabes! “blah, blah, blah loser, blah blah pathetic, etc.” I contacted a newbie domme, and she immediately called me a pathetic loser and told me to get a pair of panties. First of all, not all subs are losers. Some are successful men who enjoy being controlled by a beautiful woman. Secondly, I have no interest whatsoever in the sissy scene. She was too ignorant and inexperienced to take the time to discover who I am. She just ramrodded the session down some arbitrary path that she had gone with a previous guy. So I said “goodbye”, and that was the end of that.

    Like someone else mentioned, my initial attraction is physical. That usually occurs when I see a woman and think to myself, “Fuck yes! I would let her do anything she wants to me!” From there, I try to determine if she is capable of actually dominating me. I said it before, but nothing feels as cheesy as helping a woman dominate me. She needs to exhibit cunning and skill. Mind-games, deception, and reverse psychology are elements I attempt to discern. If she’s decent, I will stick around and see what stimulating things she comes up with. Or if she’s really good, maybe I’ll stick around not of my own choice.

  • jeremy ewing September 27, 2010, 10:58 pm

    I am turned in by the reality of it…of how natually dominant you are and the lengths you go to show us (and the world) how pathetic we are, and how superior you are…not to mention the fact that you are very attractive

  • James September 28, 2010, 5:17 am

    Hello again,

    I would just like to make another point. I would like to disagree with the above statement by jeremy ewing. I have to disagree that all submissive are pathetic. In fact I will go as far as saying that any sub who classes them self as pathetic, isnt a real sub, their just getting off on humiliation.

    I think that submission is a gift, and when you chose to submit to a Dominant person, you are giving up a lot! That to me doesnt make you pathetic, if anything it makes you stronger. I know nobody will agree with that but hey.

    I totally get the phone sex thing with humiliation, some men get off on humiliation, but I dont think your a genuine sub if you class your self as pathetic.

    ps please ignore any spelling mistakes its quite early here.

  • Mistress September 28, 2010, 10:03 am

    Pfft I could careless about spelling or grammar on my blog, lord knows I don’t correct my mistakes. Anywho, jeremy is a total fetish head who tries in backward ways to top from the bottom; however, that doesn’t prove your point as SOME subs are humiliation junkies and while genuinely a sub they LOVE to call themselves pathetic. Jeremy not being one of them.

  • James September 28, 2010, 10:45 am

    lol, thats ok then. Yer I suppose some subs will like humiliation and be genuine subs, but I can imagine some men just like humiliation as a fetish, like any other fetish. I myself dont get turned on by humiliation,
    To be honest submission itself isnt really a “turn on” for me, its a way of life. Ok there are aspects of submission which are a turn on, but over all to me its more that just a sexual desire, its a complete state of mind. I dont know if that makes any sense lol.

    Anyhow, great discussion as always.

  • teenytiny September 28, 2010, 3:07 pm

    To me it seems a fine line between being a genuine sub and liking humiliation as a fetish. Surely at the end of the day the whole BDSM scene is a fetish, unless people are living in a 24/7 dom/slave relationship.
    Many of us males have families, regular jobs and other “normal” everyday interests.
    Yes I enjoy submitting to dominant females, it’s exciting and a turn-on. Although it’s not about my sexual pleasure at all. The sessions I have are about humiliation and worship and sometimes include pain. I buy presents and for a long while made monthly payments to the Mistress I used to visit. During sessions I’ve been called pathetic (and worse) but I certainly don’t regard myself as pathetic outside of sessions.
    To address a couple of points you brought up Mistress.
    Beauty or brain? Brain! Beauty is the instant attraction but without a brain as well I lose interest. All the Mistresses I have visited have been intelligent women who had a naturally dominant manner. Give me an unattractive person who is a ” fucking amazing Domina” over a good looking babe who is not an authentic dominant Mistress anyday .
    Thankfully I’ve not been in the position of having a session of any type with a Mistress who has to be guided along. If anything in my early sessions it was the other way round. I was so inexperienced and naive!
    Even now at 51 I am still learning.

    Very interesting discussion!


  • baltegon48 October 19, 2010, 10:40 am

    I have personally “taught” women how to dominate me. It is work:) There is something special about watching a woman transform when they realize they have the power.
    I was dominated for 4 years by a woman that was not attractive at all by most standards. But the power of her mind just made me weak and she had complete control. She wasn’t pretty…but she was sexy as hell, and there is a big difference. So I guess it is sweet to just have the communication with a woman willing to use me and fuck me over…no matter if her motive is purely financial..or if she really truly is a Domme.